The early sound of the christmas bell!

I had a chat with a friend far away last night and I'm quite surprised to hear that so much have changed after I left Belgium almost 6 months ago. I promised I'll keep it a secret so I won't share it but I'm just so proud of her action toward this issue. And I certainly hope that my listening ear was useful.

Anyways the christmas bells rang super early in the office! We had our "Decorate our lorong competition" judgement today! And I'm pleased to inform you that our lane was the best looking one! All the efforts and teamwork for today was worth it! The judges like the doves and were quite fascinated by it.

They said we're the one declaring war! I say we're encouraging all of them!

But it doesn't matter who really wins at the end of the day, it's the process that matters the most and bond us together. It was great to see all the rows trying hard to outshine each other if not our ordinary fish tank would not be liven up with the christmas atmosphere.

And you think that's all? Definitely not. We had generous prizes from the few Team heads and bosses for the winners. Not just that! We had lucky draw for 3 person. 3rd prize was $100 capitaland vouchers and $170 for 2nd prize.

First prize. I shall conclude that you guys didn't get high pay for nothing! =) An itouch!

Funny thing is that our colleague, Lucy, was supposed to get it. But she was on block leave. I can imagine... If she ever found out or heard about it, I think she's jumping high and low somewhere in New Zealand! Probably crying! Evil. I know! hahaha...

And we can close this competition by singing "We have joy. We had fun!". 

 Self - made photo frame! Thumbs up for Patricia!

 "Villagers" from lorong 5!

Always forgetting the slippers!

 My gossiping group in office! Who keeps secrets just between ourselves!

Ah ying, My other half in the office.

Ah bu neinei Santa!

Alright! Good night peeps! Hope Christmas would be fun for you this year!

Bad and a couple of good

It's been quite awhile since I updated a proper entry. I just couldn't.

Last week till this wed was some tough time for me. I had TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorder ) and the jaw pain was killing me. It affected my hearing and somehow my concentration for almost everything. Even opening my mouth for a normal bread was tough, it had to be in small bites and am already a very slow eater. It was fatigue to even chew, what's more about talking. And I couldn't laugh like how I usually did.

You must be wondering what took me so long to see a doc. I had jaw pains before lasting for 1-2 days but this time was really bad. Till I had to go see one which gave me nothing but medicine for fever/pain/headache. Of cause I wasn't convinced! He even laughed at me when I rejected the MC! No more intern doctors anymore I swear! So the next day, I went back to my usual doctor and I have to complete my whole course of medication for 2 weeks to bring down the inflammation. It was quite funny when he said I had to rest my jaw which was tough. I had to go for soft food, no laughing with mouth wide open and try not to talk so much.

Well it's the 3rd day of medication, am able to open my mouth slightly bigger but I can feel it's still weak.

On a happy note, my boss brought me delightful news on wed morning. I might be heading to Belgium again for 2 weeks. It's not really confirm yet, depending if they can find anyone over there to help out. It would be lovely if I can go. Of cause the business class experience once again and first winter and snow experience after 24 years of life. :)

Not forgetting the much slower pace of life. I really wanted a break so this would be good if I can go. My bosses are really worried about me since I have quite a weak health. Or maybe a nicer term which they used. Delicate body. Winter is gonna be pretty tough for someone who can't withstand the coldness in office. But I'll make full use of my winter allowance.

I have my worries about this trip if I can go. Till then I'll update you 'cause it's quite silly.

Anyways I had lunch with my Amsterdam colleague who came here for a project. Brought her to have some beef noodles and she likes it. But I hope she really does. We had a really good chat and find somethings in common! Besides I've learn something! Buy some good cloth from Arab street and get a photo of your favourite dress, bring it to the tailor. And wala! You'll have your favourite look alike designer's dress at a dirt cheap price! Can u believe it! She's telling me where to get stuff in Singapore! I'm not disgrace by it 'cause most Singaporeans don't do that. Maybe I should start digging up my old magazines and cut out pictures soon! =)

X'mas is pretty much round the corner and everybody is busying doing X'mas shopping and putting up decorations. My workplace is definitely not giving a miss to join in the fun as well. We have this "Decorate your Lorong competition". Most of them have started putting up and some even completed! But my row has yet to start. We have the idea in our heads and since everyone's decorations are in red and gold. I thought maybe we could go for a dazzling white x'mas instead and a snowman! I just love X'mas! It's all about giving and sharing!

I did some X'mas shopping yesterday though it wasn't so sucessful. But I manage to buy a new pair of red heels! =)

Now I can throw away the old one!

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Tick Tick Tick.... It's friday!

The last and only time that I hope weekend would pass fast was when I were all alone in Belgium for 1 month. I still remember. There were too many weekends and too many long hours to go by.

But today, I'm hoping Sunday come quick for the bf's return from KL.

I don't know but it's kind of strange to not have him around me, I feel that half of me is missing.

Okay so I do miss him. I'm glad. I was still doubting myself this morning.

Anyways it's friday and I'm still in the office feeling starved! Had a really early lunch.

Nothing special tonight just heading to my cousin's place to babysit my niece and nephew. But I think it's fun enough.

I guess this week will be packing my stuff and clearing some old stuff to get the re-vamp starting.

Alright! Have a nice weekend!

Apart

The bf will be heading to KL over the weekend. Yes sadly without me. Leaving me all alone in this small miserable island.

Gonna miss him and spend weekend without him. Kind of not used to it. But maybe I can meet some friends or get down to some laundry business. Way too many clothes piling up.

Anyhow it's Friday. Hope your weekend would be good.

The new chapter

Sometime last week I had lunch with some friends. I've knew them at my current workplace 4 years back and both guys had left for better opportunity outside, leaving only Weishan and I strangling with our decisions. They have heard us bringing up the word "resign" many times but we're still here.

But this is not the only thing that they have caught up with. Marriage is. Dean's having his wedding next march. Jossie, on the other hand, is already married and becoming a father soon!

And here comes the question. "So! When's yours?"

It's strange 'cause my mum has not push me on this yet. In fact not in my family. My uncles and aunties got married late. My cousins as well. And I'm only 24 years old. Some may think it's time but not to me.

5 years more. At least that's the earliest. There are just too many things that are more important on my list and marriage is not in sight yet. But I'm definitely settling down, just not now.

And so it was 2 against 2. 2 guys who thinks that 26 is the time to get married against one girl that thinks 28 and above is the right time and the other who thinks marriage is not necessary. Am I missing something here? Are things changing too fast? From then till now. Have  females taken the place of males?

Then I dropped a question. "Is there a difference being a married couple and dating couple?"

2 nods was what I got from the 2 man in front of me. Dating means you don't have to see that someone every single day. But marriage is seeing that person everyday. Getting used to his/her habits. And losing your own free time.

Hello! Who's logic is that? 

But I thought it was not. Maybe I stay over pretty often that we know each other living habits so well. Of 'cause we do. He finds me so lazy that sometimes he just can't stand it either. He's so neat and organised but too naggy sometimes.

But didn't you guys proposed because you love her and I'm sure you said this when you're on your knees.

"... and spend the rest of my life with you."

Ladies, you said yes almost immediately.

So why is it different. You love that person so much that you should be happy to see the person you love everyday. Sharing every moment or event that had happen for the day. It's about putting in effort to maintain a relationship. A marriage. Balancing between family and friends.

Communication is necessary in all relationships whether it's with friends,family or partners. You need to talk to solves issues. That's something I like about him, we always talk. Happy and unhappy. At least we know what each of us is thinking. Relationship is not a guessing game or stressful task. Relationships makes you breathe easy. It's sweet. Oh but sometimes sour or bitter.

I don't know what it's gonna be like 5 years later. Whether either of us will change and whether the bond and love between us will still be that strong. But I can say we're both putting in effort in this relationship effortlessly.

Well, I guess it's all about making the right choice before you enter the next chapter of life. Marriage it's sacred. There's no time for regrets once you step in. Carry on and make things work out.

Things I want in my wardrobe!

Recently, I've been thinking of giving my wardrobe a new look! That is to give or sell away my old stuff and make way for the new. It took me quite a long time to realise the old has to go for the new. 'Cause I'm running out of space!

Was talking to Emilie on MSN and by accident I found a flea market kaki! So I've gotta start packing and see what I wanna get rid of. Spring cleaning is always unsuccessful 'cause I can't bear to.

Anyways these are some of new members I wanna add to the family!

There are 3 colours, not sure which one to get.

Laptop Citybag

 The thing I really need now are boots! Love these!

Finally! new haircut and colour after 2.5 mths.

Before I headed down, I thought if I couldn't cut at least colour. It was in need of some touch up!

But now that I've got both, am a happy bitch!! I love the new look and colour. I think tml will be a happy day at work. :)

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Old is the new now....

Just when you thought leopard prints are very auntifying. It has became the lastest trend. Leopard prints no longer means aunty.


And I'm hoping to own one. Just one. Trust me!

Sometimes I hope my mum kept her old clothes!

If you're looking for a rich husband...

MINDBLOWING THOUGHT PROCESS!!!


A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:

Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here. I'm 25 this year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married?

I wanted to ask:

what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York CityGarden(?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I'm here humbly to ask a few questions:

1. Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2. Which age group should I target?

3. Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking? I've met a few girls who doesn't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.

4. How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? My target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty

Awesome reply:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours.

Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty" and "money": Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.

However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worried 10 years later. By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position". If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased".

Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in "leasing" services, do contact me...

signed,

J.P. Morgan
 
He has a point! So! Don't be such a bimbo and get back to reality!

Hate me...

Yes. I hate me. Hate myself for doing this.

It's been 3 weeks. I've been a bad girl but I can't help it. Really.

It hurts badly to do that but my feet bring me the other way round. All the time. She's upset and I'm the cause for it. What has the little girl in her heart become?

To me. A monster.
To her. Am always the little girl to her that she always love.

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Mess...

Yes, everything seems messy.

Not just visually but in the mind as well. I'm feeling tired.

Then or now. Somethings just never change.

Just got back from team building from Bintan. I would say not much of a success, glad to be home that's all.

With love from Korea!

Totally caught off guard! am ecstatic! How can I ever stop shopping. Without traveling, I can buy as much!

Hannah bitch! thank you so much!

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It can't stop twitching.

My left eye has been twitching constantly since Saturday.

I don't like moments when either of my eyes just kept twitching from time to time. To others, superstition sets in.

"Hey, left eye twitching is a good sign!".

 Got a little curious and google it.

Have I mention how much I love "Google". "Google Lee".That's what Ailing, my colleague, calls me.

Anyhow here's what I got. It's quite interesting to know the eye twitching means differently to different culture.

Left Eye Twitching - What Does It Mean

Left Eye Twitching Superstition - China: An old Chinese saying about twitching eyelids says that "the twitching of the left eyelid indicates the coming of good fortune; while the right one is a warning about the coming bad luck." So while a twitch in the left eye indicates good luck or even a major gold rush, a twitching right eye is considered a bad omen which foretells of ill luck headed your way! In women the tables are turned as a twitching right eye signifies good luck while a twitching left one is considered a bad prognostic. Similarly, there are many assumptions of eyelid twitching causes and superstitions where a twitch in the lower left eyelid means you can expect to cry soon or someone is gossiping about you.

Left Eye Twitching Superstition - India: The Indian left eye twitching superstition is the reverse of the Chinese version. So in India a twitching right eye is definitely a good sign while the left eye twitching is considered inauspicious. At times, eye twitching can also be based on the gender as well, so while left eye twitching is considered good for women it might be a bad sign for men.

Left Eye Twitching Superstition - Parts of Africa: In certain parts of Africa, twitching in your lower eyelid signals that you will soon be shedding tears or when the upper eyelid twitches, it’s a sign you will meet someone unexpectedly. The Nigerians also follow the Chinese version of the left eye twitching being considered as bad.

Left Eye Twitching Superstition - Hawaii: In Hawaii twitching eyes can signal the arrival of a stranger, or a mourning in the offing.

In addition to these faith and beliefs, there are some other versions of the left eye twitching superstition where a constant twinging of your left eye might signal a demise in the family or the twitching of the right may signal an impending birth.

However scientifically.

Eye twitches can also be caused by certain conditions such as stress, air pollution, strained eyes or fatigue. If it is an extreme condition you need to consult a doctor who might prescribe oral medications or certain eye drops. In an extreme case, myectomy or surgery for treating blinking eyes may have to be performed to cure the excessive twitching of the eyes. However, general twitching in the eyes can be cured with plenty of rest and cutting down on certain things like smoking, caffeine or alcohol. To know more about how to cure eye twitches read more on eye twitch remedies. So the next time your left eye twitches and you worry about a catastrophe befalling you, just stay calm and hope for the best.

Whether it's a good/bad sign, I very much believe that the cause of my left eye twitching is definitely scientific.

memories...

Was rummaging through the bf's hard disk and found some photos.

I used to dislike taking photos thinking that it's such a hassle, it's tiring to keep smiling in front of the camera. I still do even now but I've learn to appreciate it more now.

"A picture is worth a thousand words". It's even said.

Photos & pictures allow us to remember and reminisce the events that brings us joy and laughter. Reminisce is the word. Not just remembering but recalling the past. One can't deny the power of photos. I can't, can you?

Sometimes you just can't remember one of the many events that had happen in your life. I was browsing through folder. And it's amazing that just by looking at the photos, I seem to return to that very day.

The rascal turns 1...

I have to share these photos 'cause these 2 kids of my cousin are just too adorable. It's so much fun being with them.

We celebrated Caleb's 1st day and this calls for a family gathering. Had so much fun laughing. This boy sures enjoy food. It was so difficult to keep his hands away from the cake and they just kept feeding him with bits of cakes to get this attention diverted.

Heading to the pool.

 All dressed up for the party. Am I more handsome or Beckham?

First drumstick from his grandma, my aunt.

Tasting in progress....

hmmmm.....

 And Absolutely loving it!

 The sister and brother. How did she even think of having her hands over the brother's shoulder. =)

 Love this photo of the bf and my niece.



If you dreamt of death...

Does it brings you fear?

Not too long ago I dreamt that I was dying. It was strange.

I was given time to see all the people that was important in my life and say my good-byes. Then I rec'd a call from the hospital requesting me to report for death. I got pretty agitated (as always when people rush me).

I woke up feeling strange and thought it was quite funny. Was surfing the net and this was how they interpretated it.

Looking long

what I wore to work today. Forgot the shoes. Tryin to see if the necklaces matches. Tot it was too big. Changed to a smaller one.

And off to work. Late!

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Day before the long weekend break

It's always raining so heavily when am on shift work. Makes going to work tougher especially when you're already having second thoughts.

Anyhow I woke up early today. Before 10. It's a rather rare thing 'cause usually I would be sleeping till the very last min to shower. Not sure if it's the trip tomorrow. I feel kind of relax. Away from here, away from work and some irritating people.

Currently reading Rick Warren's "Purpose driven life". It reminds me again. No matter what am doing and whatever I have is given from Him. Just work and do your best. There's a plan from Him.

Have a great afternoon peeps! Cheers!

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Meet ups

A rather fruitful week. Not talking about work, that's the norm for weekdays. It's something on top of it. Sometimes last min meet up turns out to be better than planned ones.

Been meeting up with different group of friends this week.

Mon - skinny pizza with mei and wan chien. And definitely chilling out till late at starbucks!

tues - the bark's cafe @ changi with zai, ven and Jerm. We had a good laugh. Crazy laughters just like the good old poly days.

And now am on my way to meet my sec sch friends (Ruben,Kar heng and halim). It's a pity Nas and Jerm can't join. But I guess we'll still have lots to talk about.

Finally it's friday tml and 2 more days to my birthday. Turning 24 but not feeling the burden yet. Maybe when I turn 30. Dinner with the bf,jerm and marilyn @ straits kitchen this sat. I can't wait!

have a nice evening ahead!

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Slumber

Waiting for bus and heading to work. Nice weather to slumber. Have not been sleeping well the past few days. Sometimes i just feel like taking leave to just sleep at home. And again I can't wait for x'mas to come and say goodbye to 2010.

I've something plan in my head. Really hope it'll come true. I've been saying for years since am here.

On the other hand, am hoping for things to be settle. Get photo of the leggings and send it over to hk. And also for his friend to finish his current project. Don't wanna delay anymore. It might a better choice.

All enthusiasm has ceased for this job.

Anyways great day ahead peeps!

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Gaps

was reading through cleo and chance upon this.

i've always been mindful and hated the gaps between my 2 front tooth. everyone around me always have perfect teeth. not straight teeth but with gaps in the front. braces was my only solution though people tell me it looks fine.

So i grow up hoping to work and put braces! but my shopping habits kills me every mth. However on top of that, it's only recently that I came to realized. am not alone! there are tons of people out there with that! even models!

question is should I beautify it or embrace it?

funny thing is that I've come to accept it more after seeing so many people with it. Stars and models in this case. hmmm....

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lunch

great to have her back!

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wedding dinner went ok. will be boring if we won't sitting with boss. but it was a night of many laughters.

i know how my dream wedding is gonna be like. i've had it in mind since when i was a kid attending wedding dinners with mum. but not so soon.

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was reading through some fashion blog y'day in the ofc while working. I realised. you need to get in shape to look good in almost everything.

am working towards that. hopefully it works out all well.

it's a hot and sunny day. Enjoy the sun. gonna attend a colleague's wedding dinner tonight. gonna be all dressed up!

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Finally am all ready for the dinner on Saturday. Grey flair dress,blue heels, statement necklaces and a red clutch bag.

I guess either you hate it or love it. Appreciate it or find it totally off. But I thought it goes just alright! So does the bf!

And it's how I wear it. Not the dress wearing. Anyhow it's time to slp! Gotta work tml!

Night!

Good and bad

alright let's start with something good for the start of the day.

Just installed 'blogger-droid' on my phone last night. Now I can blog on the go. It's good for lazy people like me who thought of so much to blog but just gets so lazy when am home. Let's see if i'll make full use of this app.

The advancement of today's technology makes things so much easier and people happier. Gone are the days of the ancient handphones. Soon.

On the other side of life. I was blowing my hair and preparing for work. CNA would be my best companion through my preparation. This ad just caught me. it still gives me the chill despite happening for so long. I remembering hearing this news from the local radio and it didn't really occur to me that much back then. All that came out from my mouth was "a plane just crush into twin towers".

9 years after, the 911 incident serves as a reminder to all country to be vigilant at all times. even till today. many more after that, tighten securities at all airports.

But again besides as a reminder to all government of the world. To normal people like us, it says to cherish loved ones around you.

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Strange

Fate. Strange as it can be. Sometimes it's just so funny. It can bring a smile on your face just by thinking back.

And it just happens. You can't explain. Maybe there isn't a reason for it at all.

You can know someone almost 1/2 your life and thought it was never possible to be together but one fine day you just did.

I never thought I would be with him. And we just celebrated our 3rd year anniversary. But it seems like just yesterday. I guess that's when you meet the right person.

Sometimes I just feel so blessed when I open my eyes to see him first thing in the morning. Saying goodbye then back to catch my last 10mins of sleep.

I'm getting tired.

Need a break.

Dear God, What should I do?

I can't help but think abt it when mei mentioned the word "polaroid".

Reminds me of my hk trip, when my sister, meiying, came to look for me from dongguan. And how I just got angry with her for nothing. Really nothing and to think that she was away from home for about 3mths for her china internship. To see me was supposed to be the happiest moment for her. But turns out she was so scared. Apologised after that, 'cause I really felt very bad and guilty.

Anyways it's over, just that the thought came to me. Gotta get her something from here to make up for it.

After 10 days with wen min here, I realised that I need to change a camera! I need a new camera!! Canon's specs are quite gd. Thought of getting a semi-pro since I wanna change!

Should I? hmmm... I shall go back and tempt the bf about it. 'Cause he wants to get one as well! =)

Finally my last 5 nights here in Belgium, feelings are really at 2 extreme side of each end. I don't wanna leave this relaxing place and nice weather but on the other hand I'm excited to head home! But I guess it's back to reality. you enjoy enough, it's time to work hard.

Having a terrible headache now. Feel like heading back to the hotel for some panadol and sleep since I'm doing nothing.

Unsuccessful trip

It's 12.47am here in Belgium and I just finished showering. It's the first time am back in the hotel so late ever since I came here. But I've got company.

Was supposed to tour around Antwerp but our Paris hotel was declined as it's fully book. So we've gotta start sourcing for other hotel if not we'll just end up on the streets with our LV and long champ buys. Managed to get a hotel for 95euros. Not that fantastic looking but well it's just one night and we're on the train back to Antwerp.

So we got the hotel booked and got ready to head out for dinner. After looking through the map, we decided for Moroccan Seafood located slightly further away from Chinatown. Got some directions from the recep and with a 15mins walk mindset we stepped out of the hotel lobby. Was fine initially but as we got deeper in. Everywhere was closed and it doesn't look safe. We were contemplating if we should go forward or just turn back. Considering the fact that we still have to walk back and it was late. We gave up the idea and turn back. A wise decision made. I would say.

We walked and walked. Finally settled down at a nice looking, modern Japanese restaurant. I had chilli beef ramen with lots of uncooked beansprouts and red onions. I finished everything but not the beansprouts and red onion. Not a fan for uncooked vegetables when it's supposed to be cooked.Wen min had some curry with tempura vegetables and salad.

Nice and warm dinner.With a satisfied stomach, we paid for the bill and asked "when are we ever gonna watch a movie here?".

Bought the tickets for "Sex and the city 2" at 9.45pm for 4.90euros each and off we go to the cinemas! It's free seating! We get to choose our seats! Now I bet if we had the freedom to choose our seats back in Singapore, you'll have queues outside of EVERY theater. Watching a show will be so tiring, just like queuing up to pay for GSS.

The idea of watching a movie here strike me when most of my friends back in Singapore were posting about how awesome "Sex and the City 2" were. And I thought I shouldn't give it a miss! It turns out not to be as good that I thought it would be. Was kind of bored in between. But overall It's probably a 3/5.

It's getting late! Time to sleep! Ciao!

It's 10.48pm here in Belgium. I'm showered and nicely tuck under the blankie.

We had just finished dinner at this crappy restaurant. I had Scampis lookroom for dinner. Not sure if I got it right. But anyways it's actually prawns with garlic cream sauce. Prawns were fresh and I added fries which I couldn't finished.

Everything comes with fries or bread here. I'm almost afraid of seeing bread now. And the same old breakfast everyday. And I can start my conversation by comparing which hotel serves better scramble eggs! That would be Le Meriden Brussels. Not forgetting better service.

Feeling sleepy already. Planning to head down to Paris this weekend. So! We'll have to check and book a hotel there. Have not done any research on where to go. We'll be taking the super early train on Sat morning. 6am and reached Paris at 10am. Thanks to the 1 hour wait in between, if not it would have been 9am.

Seesh... can't wait to go Paris! Can you imagine me going crazy there?

Changes

It's Monday once again. Back to the nothing to do again. I've been sitting here all morning not knowing what to do. Almost dozing off at every stage.Came in late, had long lunch and planning to go off early.

All the taboos in office, I've done it all here. Feel like a total slacker and waste of my time. I would rather be out walking with Wen min then sit here though it's a very rare opportunity to be so slack.

Oh yea... Did I mention I'm left with 50euros for the next 2 weeks. Gosh! This is so disgusting. What have I been spending on! goodness gracious me. And too much shopping. No good for me! Not forgetting that I still have credit card bills to pay when I get back to SG. My HK trip as well. I'm starting to think if I would need to declare bankrupt soon. I think I better stop. Oh maybe after a few more items. Yet to buy chocs for the office and others. I need CASH! Better get the reimbursement of my meals back soon!

Somehow I still don't really like this trip despite it being paid for. I wanna be back home.

Anyways I was reading through Emilie's blog and it reminded me of something.

A little change to my life when I'm back in Singapore. Gonna start jamming with Emilie and her friend, Edwin. It's for fun as of now 'cause she's taking pop piano and having a band to practice with will be better. But  it's also good for me cause I always wanted to sing in a band, work with others and discover things as a band. And how to improve myself from others' suggestions. I'm looking forward to this addition activity in my life. The colours that it'll be adding to my life besides the monday-friday, work and home routine.

The list of songs can be found on Emilie's blog and thankfully she post it on her blog 'cause I left the list back in Singapore. I could practice during my free time especially those new songs.

Not sure how it's gonna turn out to be but very eager to work with the both of them. What's the future of this band? I don't know but at least it's a good start. Things can always be work out on the way. We've started picking out songs that we wanna try and see which is the best for us. Or rather we can choose songs and customized it to suit us. Don't expect Mariah Carey's kind of voice for me 'cause I ain't those kind. My voice is just a voice that produces out a sound that might coincidentally be in tune with the note that's playing out from the keyboard or guitar.

So the first task is to exercise diligently to firm up and train up those diaphragm. It really helps alot and makes alot of difference. Well at the same time, I could work out and lose weight. The best of both worlds. Or maybe I can start at the gym though I don't have proper exercise gear. But I guess shorts, t-shirts and sneakers are good enough.

Sorry for the lack of updates in photos, I'm just too lazy to do so. I'll find the time.

Can't wait to be back in Singapore. Not that I don't like it here. I enjoy the weather and laid back life. I'm probably the luckiest person in the back office that could be sent from so far to actually help out. God has heard my prayers and given this opportunity. But still, this is not home. I don't get my favourite food here. Food are horribly expensive and if you thought Singapore is expensive you might really consider eating grass here. What I don't really like is that I've gotta move here and there. It gets quite irritating actually. I'm checking out from Antwerp's hotel on the 17th June. I'm still thinking if I wanna move to Brussels for one night. But my luggage is heavy. Then on the 18th I'll be spending 1 night in Amsterdam, I'll have to move again. Head to Amsterdam Hilton on myself by cab and then fly from Amsterdam airport. I really don't like the travelling thru and flow esp. with my heavy luggage.

I miss the bf alot. One month of separation might not be long but it's not too short either. It's great to know that we both miss each other as much. And looking forward to the day of my return back to Singapore. !2 more days till the final countdown! I'm out of these place and back to the land that's filled of love for me. =)

Amsterdam

Weekends in Amsterdam was amazing!

Had so much fun and eye opening experience! The red light district, apartment with very narrow staircase, canal boat ride and nice ice cream. Red light district area was totally eye opener and it was just like entering sin city. Kind of too much man. But good to experience it. heee...

My Amsterdam colleague was nice enough to host us and giving us a roof. Nice and simple apartment with doors all spoiled. But he's a man leaving alone so what can we expect. Funny thing is he didn't change fresh new bedsheets for us. haaa... amazing but well we still slept on it. Need to sleep.

Anyways am not thinking straight anymore. Need to get some slp, gotta head to work.

More updates! Laterz!

Lobo

I've been sitting here the whole morning doing nothing else except for chatting on msn, commenting on friend's post in Facebook, reading blogs and sending emails to friends in SG. Not just today but almost everyday since I'm here.

Good life eh. I won't comment much on that. At least some work is better than no work. But it doesn't seem to look as wrong here compared to Singapore. I just settle into the culture. when they have nothing much to do, they surf net here. And how do I know. 'Cause I'm sitting right at the corner of the room.

If only work was like that back home. I was just looking through the HK mailbox and  wonder to myself. "Can I picked up the fast paced work when I'm back." Or maybe the question should be this instead. "Do I want or not." I'm getting so lazy. I still can't make myself commit to here anymore.

The fire is dying. I can't get it burning again. I need some motivation.

But anyways on a happy note. Wen Min has finally arrived Antwerp! Finally! I'm gonna enjoy these 10days with her so much!! And probably get better sleep tonight. I was jumping on the streets when I saw her. Literally. It's fate I guess. We've got the same luggage bag as well!

We'll be heading down to Amsterdam later in the evening by train. Staying over at a colleague's house. Glad that we can actually save up the hotel money and spend in Paris. Can't wait to explore with her, Heard Amsterdam is damn fun!

Lunchtime soon. Gonna head back to the hotel to look for her and off we go for some walk! Good weather today! Not oo cold and the sun is up!

16 more days...

16 more days to the end of my misery here.




I feel like a fool here. It's my 2nd week here in Belgium and I've yet to figure out what I'm supposed to do. Should I sit here and wait for them to tell me what to do or take initiative?

Back in SG, our culture is to take initiative. Which I did. I did as told but seems like it's pointless if something else is not completely done. I, as a tester, whom they requested all the way from SG has totally no information or updates about the delay of the DU testings. And how am I supposed to know. Even the lady guiding me is so inexperienced and get stressed up over little things which can't be comparable to our working env't in SG. I mean of cause I can't compare it's different culture. Do it! You have done it before! Like "HELLO! I have not done it before! I know it better than you, confused mouse!"



I know I'm being mean here. But feel my frustration. It's the situation of a blind mouse leading another one. And she's sort of raising her voice at me. I'm here to help her, not her assistant! She don't even have good payment knowledge. Ugh... nvm. Just that too many things happen and I just have to beware of my back. 16 more days and there are 10days Wen min is here. I thank God for that.

Well it's another 1 hr 10mins more for lunch. I'm looking forward to it.

Have a great day ahead pple!

Starting all over again

Checking out from Le Meriden Brussels in another hour and gonna hop on the train with all my heavy luggage to Antwerp.

Yes I'll be spending the rest of the week in Antwerp.

It feels like starting all over again. Trying to adapt to be alone somewhere else again. Survived through the 2nd weekends. I've 20 more days and 2 more weekends before home comes near. That's why Wen Min's arrival next friday is gonna be such a bonus! At least there's someone to spend 2 weekends with me! Gonna head down to Amsterdam and Paris! Woohooo!!! =)

2nd wkend in Brussels

Time is starting to pass faster now.

Just last wk I was wondering how to pass each day till 19June. But now I'm enjoying. The relax and laid back life ass compared to the bustling and stressful Singapore. It's been stress-free days since I was here. Strangely I have this feeling that on the day I'm leaving, I might not wanna leave.

But I still miss home. Wanna be back for my laksa, fishball noodle and chilli! Miss those food. I still do think that they're fattening but I've been away for 1mth. So I'll put that aside and enjoy food from where I call home.

It's gonna be my last night in Brussels, heading down to Antwerp tmr and I'll be there for the rest of the weeks till I head home. The mention of the word "home" just gets me so excited!! But there's something else making me even more exciting and that is Wen min's arrival to Belgium next friday!!! Finally someone to accompany me, we have plans to visit Paris and Amsterdam! But she had a little problem with her confirmation email, just hope everything is alright.

It's almost 12pm now... Heading out for a walk soon and do some shopping. And come back early to pack my luggage. I had a hard time squeezing things into my luggage when I came. I bought somethings as well. Just hope I'll be able to close it!

Ciaoz peeps! Have a great evening!

Day 5 in Brussels

It's the most sunny day since I came here.

Hop on the city tour bus to a few places. I'm kind of burn having standing under the sun waiting for the bus for almost 30mins.

Visited the Atomium and a few other places. Hoping that the bf were here to actually enjoy all these beautiful scenery with me. Frankly speaking I have not taken that much photos of a place away from Singapore. Each vacation destination is just for one purpose. Shopping!!

Walking around with my camera and exploring Brussels, I came to realised how much I've neglected the beautiful sights that I might have missed on my travels. But I just can't help it.

The thing about here is that the shops closes early everyday. It's like maybe 7+ or 8pm. I would be back in my hotel room at 9+ and probably sleeping by 10+. But it's 4am in SG so my body clock is still trying to adjust to it.

I was out at this park just now and so many of them will lying on the grass. Chatting away and enjoying the sun. And I thought to myself. "hey when I'm back in SG, I would love to do that with the bf as well." Spending quality time together. And how we just love each other company.

During my walk here, I barely see any chinese or yellow skin people here. So each time when I see some chinese here, I feel warmth. You know that kind of feeling. All alone in a foreign land.

I still have 25 days more. Hope the clock ticks faster....

Dinner time soon... Ciaoz!

Missing Home

So here I am, all alone in Brussels. It's the fourth day and I'm still trying to get used to it.

The jet lag is just making me crazy and the air-con in my room is spoiled. I have been sleeping and waking up in perspiration. Hate that.

Wanna get some good sleep tonight. They'll be changing a room for me later and upgrade to a deluxe room. Much bigger room. Hope I get a better sleep tonight.

4 days in Brussels and I've lost 1 kg. Appetite has not been too good. It was only yesterday that I actually went out to look for dinner. Room service was just 1 button away for the past 2 nights.

I used to hope that I could get out of Singapore and maybe try a new life outside. Always wanting to try it out. I love traveling but traveling alone and with the bf is so different. I remember heading to HK alone last year, it wasn't as fun as compared to the trip that we both went together last week.

I guess that's what they meant by home is where the heart truly is. With him around, everything seem so colourful and bright. Reminds me of the time when I came down too harsh on him and the quarrels that I started. But again... it's only when you really love someone that you'll miss him so much. Every beautiful sight or happy things, you just wanna share with him. Was out walking alone y'day, how I wished he was around to see how different the culture is from Singapore. Things will be different if we're exploring this place together. All the fun and laughter, I can imagine.

Well it's another long day which I don't know how to get by. Probably I'll stay in the hotel room. But I think I'll probably go out for a walk and take some photos. Will join the city tour tml.

Till then. Take care folks!

26 more days to be back home!

First day in Belgium

Hello from Belgium folks!!!

Alright I don't really sound as excited as I am actually.

It's my first day here in Belgium and I'm feeling kind of crappy. I feel so dumped right here. That's not what I was expecting. I thought someone here will bring me around. But apparently, I'll more or less have to be on my own. Don't really like that idea, since I'm not familiar with here. And plus I'll need to be here for 1 week. What's this. Seriously. Guess I'll call back tml and see what can be arranged. I don't really know why I'm here. Their system is much more advanced than us. I spoke to the lady in-charge of the testing project. Guess what. She didn't want me to come all over from SG. She has a point there. We're both thinking the SAME! But whatever...

Am just having my dinner right now. Seasonal vegetable cream soup. Not really in the mood to eat sth solid. Just wanna keep the stomach full and head to bed early. Time now in Belgium is abt 8.45pm but it still looks like 4-5pm.

On a happy note, since it's a business trip. Everything is paid for. So might as well use the internet and the room service here. Since there's no one to bring me around there's nth much I can do either.

And first time on SQ business class. Awesome experience. Air stewardess taking your orders one by one and addressing you by "Miss Lee". Seats are comfy. Better headphones and much more peaceful. No wonder the price for business class.

First day and I'm already missing SG 'cause of the situation I'm in. Wish there were other SG colleague with me. Now I'm all alone. Miss the bf alot. If only air tics to Europe were not that ex.

Will update more... till then folks!

Ciaoz!

Final Endurance, I hope.

Endurance is really tough especially when it comes to something that you don't like. Each day seems like hell and you can't stop blaming time for passing so slowly.

But I hope this is my final endurance here. And probably move on to another stage of my life with a career change. I'm excited about it and looking forward to it.

Back in the office on a sunday for standby in Dubai processing just in case there's anything. I'm just making full use of the internet services given to us. I'm wondering if I should do my masters in Marketing. The bf is gonna start his studies soon in May and Ivy is gonna do her Masters in Mkting communications as well. It's influencing me to wanna study again. I'll give it a good thought first.

It's another hr before the cut-off time for client's instruction to be fax to us. Hope I can get out after that.

Anyways enjoy the last bit of weekend!

Making God's word the final authority in life

Just finish battling with many issues for the day. Waiting for the bf to pick me up.

Sometimes I just wonder is it worthwhile to put in so much effort at all. People don't appreciate or even remember. It's quite discouraging.

But again I forgot. God never change. I'm doing it for the glory of God and not for anybody else. They don't remember or appreciate. God will remember and reward accordingly. The world's order of things are unsure and indefinite. Each day before I step into office, I pray for strength from God in everything I do. And things will change for better.

And now though there are many issues but I've settled it all and it's time to head home to the nest.

"I am the Lord, I change not." Malachi 3:6.

Happy CNY and V-day, my dear friends!

Nothing really special for this occassion, except for the long holidays and red packets. But it's not really a long holiday 'cause am back today on the 2nd day of CNY to support the dubai market. It's awful feeling.

And so the spring cleaning should be done way before CNY and just enjoy the new year. But I've been so busy at work, working late for the whole of last week. I rarely could spare any time for spring cleaning. Cleared some of my shoes on CNY eve though. Threw quite a few pairs away but it didn't make much of a difference. 'Cause I've already got a few new pairs to fill up the space! So it just looks like how it was before.

Yet to clear my clothes and bags, I'm sure it's gonna be a disaster. I just can't stop buying. The old ones are not going but new old ones just keep coming in at a uber crazy flow! I'm trying to cut-down a little. It's tough! Made a promise to the bf. For this spring cleaning, I'll have to listen to him. Those that need to go, will have to go. There was a little disagreement to the shoes that day 'cause I'm not the kind that keep to my promise when it comes to clearing my old stuff that I treasure so much and actually listening to the man telling me what to do. Ego. That's me.

Plan is to pack tml. Don't think I'll have enough time to do so. I'll always stone mid-way through the packing cause I don't know what to do with the overflowing stuff I've got or even where to keep them. For some reason, I'll just blank out.

Anyways am just waiting for confirmation from another team, in order to make my payment out. But the system is down, this whole processing for dubai is pissing me off. I hope I can leave at 10pm. Or before 11pm. Pissed with my boss as well, it's her week for dubai shift. We are nice to take turns for her. She left at 4.30 ytd. Just felt that she should be the one coming back today, not us covering for her. It's not fair and she just kept quiet abt it. It's fine to come back to work if you enjoy the work you're doing but it really sucks when it's not.

You know, I've been giving a good thought of my future here. I can't give up the benefits and the pay but I'm sacrificing my happiness which is not worth it. Decided to leave some time this year and move on to something new. Probably no more banking line. Wanna try out marketing communications kind of job. Am 24, still young for a career switch and I don't intend to settle down so fast. It's never too late. Everything is just getting draggy here. Looking at my work and all the investigationgs and recon one person has to do. There's only 1 word that starts highlighting itself in my head. Hate. So I guess it's time to move on. To something new and fresh.

Sunday's sermon was good. It was about faith.

And Heb 11:1 mention.

"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for, being convinced of what we do not see."

Entrust your life to Him. And it is mention in Heb11:40

"For God had provided something better for us, so that they would be made perfect together with us."

I've always been afraid of quitting my job. Many questions will start popping in my head.

Can I get a job? A job that pays as well as this? Would I be once again jobless for many months?

All these uncertainties are driving me insane. And each time when I make a decision to leave. I'll be held bad. This is when the good times are here.

But it's short-lived. Bad times come quick. I'll be filled with frustration again.

I guess my students made me realised something. I've always been telling them. Do what you like, then you'll be happy. They did. One of them got into Integrated resort event mgmt and the other mass comm.

If I could tell them that then what am I still doing here. I used to put in a 120% for my work but now it's just 100%. I'm tired of this place.

I'm gonna try out marketing. I know it's tough. Long hours. But who knows I might be just happy with it. I'm still young. I still have time to change my career.

The fear and questions are no longer in mind. God will provide for me. Like what Heb11:1 said. We do not know. BUT! He knows!

Good and bad times

it's the 12th day of 2010 and within this 12 days I've learnt quite abit.

A new beginning and a new kind of life. Starting my day with daily devotion and a simple prayer for victory in all things that I do everyday. And sure, it does help. God answers prayers. A little incident at work happen last week, though the amount is small but it still will have an impact on client.

But there was a voice telling me, you have to check. And we manage to send the money on time. Praise God!

I was feeling rather down and irritated the first few days of 2010. I felt lost at work. I didn't wanna go to work. I took out a book which my Pastor gave to me for X'mas present. "From faith to faith".

"Look up... because in times like these, your very life may depend on it."

Hebrews 12:3
"Consider (Jesus) that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be worried and faint in your minds."

It reminded me. Trust in Him. I've gotten weary recently. And immediately when I lift my eyes, raise my head instead of looking down. I felt so much better. I felt comforted.

But somehow I've make my decision to leave this year. I've no motivation to wake up for work. Or even try to put my best effort for my work anymore. And the thing is that my pay is not the sustaining factor anymore. I've no reason to stay on. But I'm praying for strength to hold on a little longer. Save a little and take that step.

I need a break. And then probably move on to marketing. After all, I do have a degree in marketing. Why waste it. Give it a shot. It might give me more job satisfaction.

I'll have to pray for guidance ans wisdom to make decision. For the time being, prayer for strength and peace is what I need.

What a waste of my time I would say.

I could be spending my time on more meaningful things.

Am back in the office for sytem testing. And the system is not responding. Here I am sitting here doing nothing. Just surfing net. I could do that back at home in the comfort of my bed. Not here. And I have to be back with the worst colleague ever. No one to talk to.

Bf's and his mum purchased tics for "New moon". Bought mine as well. Now they are watching it. Show started at 3.50. It's 4:41pm now. I think the tic is gonna go wasted. Damn it.

Anyways it's Dec. Finally! Can't wait for X'mas to be here! Simply heart X'mas. But hate the part whereby I have to crack my mind thinking what pressie to get for friends. But I just love the joy. 2009 is ending 26 more days. Gotta come up with a list to Thank God for the year. It may not have been smooth sailing but He gave strength.

Just like this job. Since Oct, it's been crazy. Everything at work was piling up. Everything went wrong with the separation and new a/cs set up. And it definitely had a direct impact on my team. Many of the discrepancy in recon was the "wonderful" work of ours. Working till 1-2am, no matter if I start work at 9am or 1pm.

It could be avoided. But it wasn't well planned. Having bad management was bad enough. A lousy direct boss makes it worse. And sometimes co-workers in HK have to drag you down into hell. I'm running out of energy and maybe passion to make things work out well. I no longer wanna give a 100% for this job anymore. I make dislike my job in the past but I'll give my all and put it all the effort even if it takes to stay a little later. I can only conclude. ENOUGH is ENOUGH!

Waiting for the end of year review first. See how it goes. I think I need a break from work for the time being. Have gotta start saving from now on.

BUT! Am so in the mood for the best therapy in the world! Shopping!

De-stress is the word.

Hope this crap end really soon. Don't wanna be stuck here anymore.

I black out again.

But this time round it's different. I feared. I was afraid. I actually cried when i regain consciousness.

Just glad am fine.

Am on 4 days sick leave. Gonna have ample rest before heading back to work next week.

Are these worthwhile at all?

It's the question that pop in my head when I was taking my shower after 16hours of work. And previous day I spent 17hours in the office as well. But all my efforts worthwhile. Depsite trying my best and making sure things flow well. Despite that things are not within my control, it's still my fault.

Being blame for not sending out the payment. Not urging.

Did you see me making many calls? Did u hear me urging them? But there's nothing I could do. It's not my control.

And words are put into my mouth.

I'm wondering. I've tried my best and I'm satisfied. But why ask so much?

I just feel like swearing. I miss the bf. Wanna talk to him. Tell him all the problems I had for the day. He's sleeping at home now. Tml is his P.O.P. Finally after 3 months, I can talk and msg him anytime. And his comforting hug.

It's getting late. Time to sleep. Thank God am on 1/2 day tml.

17 hours

Just got back fro work not long ago. yea am not kidding. Left at 2am.

It's been a rough day. Super pissed with my colleague. Seriously so what it's her last day. I've never seen such irreponsible people. To think she's older than me. She still have the cheek to msg me to say she's sorry. Come on if it wasn't for her dilly-dally-ness. I won't have to leave so late and miss out my tuition session with my student for her Emaths O's tml.

Anyways she has left. No more working with her. I shld be glad.

Wanted to head to bed. But I'm so hungry and I definitely can't head to bed with a hungry stomach. It'll be tossing on the bed. Thank God mum cooked if not i'll be stuck with bread again. Breakfast-bread. Lunch-Sandwich. I'm gonna be so afraid of bread soon. It's not just today.

Gonna play some game before I head to bed. Gotta reach work early tml.

Work was like a nightmare this week! And I can only say... Thank God weekends are here! Was on dubai shift from 1pm till 10pm but without fail for the past 5 days I have been knocking off after 12 not to clear dubai stuff but HK stuff.

All the changes are affecting our work somehow or another. And for the past few days, I've become a help desk, query desk and hotline services. Many screw ups at work. Unexplainable and ridiculous shit happens. If I was the customer, I would have been pissed and lodge a complaint.

It's just scary how time just ticks away without my knowing. And before I know there's not much soul at Raffles place anymore. Just cabbies forming queues in hope for a customer to hop on.

It's tiring and draining. And I think I'm pretty stressed up. Or probably my brain had worked too much. There was 1 night I msg my boss to tell her that there's a mistake and she has to help me amend it in the morning. Msg was sent at 3am in the morning. It just came to me when I was about to fall asleep. Overload by work.

O's are coming soon. I'm worried. Have not been able to spend time with my student to clear their doubts. 6 years of tutor-student relationship or maybe I would prefer to call it friendship is gonna end soon. It was nice teaching this sweet little kids since I was 16. They have grown. I did as well. Physically and mindset.

It's 4:37am. Time to sleep. Gonna be a long day tml. Gotta collect my regalia and tickets for Convo. And I hope for a little shopping spree over the weekends! With the bf! =)

Coming back to work on a sunday is definitely not so pleasant.

When everybody else is getting ready to head off for shopping and enjoy the last bit of weekends before monday comes. I was preparing to come to work right after church.

Everything is just messy. Volume is low but there's so much problem to deal with esp. the system.

It's driving me crazy till I realise that I asked a stupid qns!

Gosh... it's another 1 hr more till knock off.

My sunday just went wasted like that.