Dressing up makes me happy.

I always feel happy when I put together an outfit that goes well, at least to me. Dressing up helps to chase the blues away from work. And makes you even happpier when you are happy. It just can't stop me from smiling.

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Finally out for a walk!

Love the rain! Love the weather! Love the puddle of water! I was so happy to wake up to heavy rain outside! And the first thing that came to my mind was... Gumboots!!

Bought the sweater from HK and so glad I could wear it today!

I met my aunt at church and before we separated she said " Sengkang is raining, do you wanna go there with your boots!?"

Anyways have a great Saturday evening and hope Sunday is good for you!

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Summer but it felt like winter

Security as define means freedom from danger, care, anxiety. Whether in relationship or financial areas, security meant protection. Reassurance. All of us need that 'cause we're humans. We constantly need assurance from family, friends, colleagues and our bosses. We know we do not have to ask for reassurance from our family and close friends 'cause there's love and we can work in getting assurance at work. But what about relationship?

How would you define being secure in a relationship? It probably varies with different people due to expectations. But despite that, there's one thing in common. That is... You lose it(sense of security), you lose it all. Insecurity feels like winter and sometimes it gets too lonely during winter 'cause of the coldness. But it gets too warm inside with the many layers. It makes you lose your sanity and you start to doubt.

I once told my bf... If you ever cheat on me, please tell me. I can forgive you but we can't continue to be together. Sounds ridiculous? My hairstylist heard this and turn to my bf asking him how did he manage to find a "guy" to date? Not sure if this is a man's thinking but it certainly the way I feel. Once there's betrayal, I can't trust you any longer. You can't treat me like a fool by cheating behind my back but I hate myself for doubting and questioning you if I found out and forgive you like it had never happen before. I can't. Yes I'm full of ego.

I told one of my friend that if a man can't make you feel secure, he's not the right man for you. I don't know to what extent you'll agree with me. But if there's love and trust, there's no need for constant reassurance 'cause sometimes it might get a little tiring. Things might just change.

Fortunately, I must say bf and I have come thus far. Almost 4 yrs of relationship but there's never one moment we doubted each other 'cause of another person. I like that when either of us spot a handsome guy or pretty girl on the streets, we would give each other a nudge to check them out. No jealousy 'cause our love is strong. A pity if we missed it.

I'm happy to have him and still counting many happy moments together. I hope you've found the same.

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Comunication

Somehow I like this pic. I called it the auntie and nephew communication.

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Second home and a slacky Monday

Okay, I did mention that I wanted to just sleep in today. But not to the extreme. I woke up almost an hour again, feeling hungry as usual. But bf was still sleeping away. He hadn't been sleeping well the past few days and it was a tiring Sunday. Last night, we headed back to my house to pack some of my stuff for the upcoming flea market. Seriously, I couldn't unpack my HK luggage 'cause I have no space at all. So it's time to clear up! It was difficult but I managed to say good bye.

Honestly I'm really thankful for someone like him to be with someone like me, plain messy. So the least I could do is to let him sleep more and head out for brunch? Too late for that eh.

Now that he's awake, he's doing his laundry and we're head out for some food soon! 

And I thought why waste the 1 hour and use it to upload some of my photos taken in Hong Kong! It was quite an upsetting trip 'cause I was sick through out the whole trip and it just gets worst! I wasn't even given a chance to my favourite spicy food except for the second last day! Life is tasteless without chilli! Haaa.... We're planning for next April/May to go and it will be for 7 days. Well you can say, HK is almost my second home. It's a must go every year!

Last year when we went to Hong Kong, he didn't had the chance to eat much 'cause of my shopping craze! And he gave in to me! My HK colleagues said I was too cruel and bought stuff for him to eat! This time round, we took a later flight and all of us was starved!




Doing the tourist thing!

I thought it was quite a pose!



Charlton with his bitchy look!

 Finally steamboat in HK! It was here that he mention he was damn hungry and haven't ate the world day! My colleagues exclaimed "AGAIN!" and stared at me! But I swear it's not me! =)

 I just love beef!

 Real meatballs!

 Crystal char siew bao!

 I thought this was ready interesting! It's frozen tofu! By freezing the tofu, it undergoes some changes and after cooking it! It taste like dao po! But I prefer this!

 Given that we haven't had anything much for the whole day, we really needed some carbo stuff! Simple food but food for the soul!

 And what's hk without dessert!

 Covering my pimpled face! Saw my purple hair!

Fortunately, it was a HK holiday on the second day and my colleagues had time to accompany us. They brought us to this shopping place. More like a neighbourhood shopping area where most hongkongers shopped 'cause it's cheaper than Mongkok!

Anyways I've decided to go on diet! Gonna lose that 5kg! And with bf joining the same gym as me! Like FINALLY! We can work out together. Some people said it's better to work out alone. But I think it's important to have a correct workout partner!

Ending good.

Somehow it has been a noisy Sunday for me today. Dinner with my family at golden mile got me on my nerves. I love time with family but sometimes things just get a little out of hand. Having one or two complaining about this and that. It's really a test to my patience. I would have blow my top in the past but not now. I've learnt how to tolerate. But anyhow we manage to finish dinner by satisfying every stomach with my orders. I'm glad.

Bf and I went back to pick up the car after dinner and head down to my cousin's house to pick up my sister. And we just kept quiet through out the journey. 'Cause we knew any disagreement in our conversation could lead to an argument after that noisy dinner, which got us both really antsy. So we decided to just keep quiet and let the music get the messy feeling out of us.

Fortunately there's always 2 person that can make so much noise yet make us smile. The both of them are such a dear. God has blessed my cousin with these 2 lovely kids which brought so much laughers to the Tan family and also the reason for gathering together more often. I had a 1.5 hours play time with them and it was so much fun. So if you didn't start the day well or things screwed up in between, don't forget that there's always an end of the day to look forward to!

Finally it's a public holiday and I'm gonna just sleep in! Hope you folks enjoy the day tml!

muffin-fied!

I've an addiction recently. For muffin. And I wanna try all the muffins from different cafes! So to satisfy my cravings, I went to buy muffins during lunch from "The Muffinry" @ 112 Telok Ayer Street.

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