Are all man freaks?

I have a girl friend whose ex has been bothering her recently and they broke up a couple of months back. It was a pretty long relationship... on a downhill. She had always wanted to break it off but didn't know how to till they had a quarrel one day and the guy initiated the break up. Of 'cause she jumped at the chance and said okay.

After initiating the break up, the guy wanted to patch things up. It wasn't about the getting back together. It was about the stuff and his actions that make the whole thing so insane. He stressed her with the words of the fortune teller which says that she could only be with this guy. If not, all her friends will leave her and she'll be in depression. It drove me crazy 'cause it drove my friend nuts! And after breaking up for a few months, she's now happily in a relationship yet this guy still refuses to give up. He sent a sms to her asking if she was in a new relationship and wanted an answer from her with a date line! With no answer from my friend, he gave her 50 missed calls and long sms-es at 7am Saturday morning!

I admire the patience my friend has. I would blow my top and scream at him right at the 4th call at7am Saturday morning! I'm not even awake yet on my usual working days! Anyhow... After not picking up his 50 missed calls and replying to his long sms-es, he resulted in going down to her house to look for her and my poor friend had to hide in the toilet.

He wanted to patch things up and gave her a diamond ring.  It just never ends does it.

I shared this incident with my closest colleagues and one of them had similar experience too! The guy kept pestering her and even threaten to throw her down the carpark. She had to make a police report. Since when policemen starting getting involves in relationship disputes? It's getting common in this era.

But has the world change?? Man are no longer acting like man. Using threats to scare woman or their crazy love has turn their actions to something so abnormal.

I have this other guy friend who has quite a possessive girlfriend. She didn't like the idea of double date and didn't like the idea that he gives attention to his family. If she told him to do something, I would call it an order, he sort of had to do it. His brother and sister told him... "I'm losing my brother soon."

Another guy friend whose girlfriend wanted him to say "I love you" everyday. There's nothing wrong in saying that everyday. But her logic of not saying "I love you" everyday meant that the guy just don't love her that much.

And it reminds me of how sometimes my bf will tell me... "I don't feel your love for me at times."
I say the same things to him too... at times. But we all know the fact that we do love each other. Love is such a big word to me. I've never said I love somebody and even if I really feel so much for someone before. I could only used "like". But this one, I know I can used "love".

Has love become something so scary? Or love has drive people insane?

I've shared my friends' experiences for both sexes.The truth is that... we all have a little freak in us whether male or female. It's just how much it affects our sanity. Sometimes things are just simple. Human complicates it. Love relationships are supposed to be sweet not bitter and stressful.

We all deserve to be in a relationship that we can wake up in smiles and not tears.