Monday, March 15, 2004

Went to church this morning.... Then after service went to Barrie's house (soon-to-be cousin-in-law; in about 1 week time!)... Help out in doing the programme sheet.... We had to use tongue depressor and satay stick to paste the programme sheet into a fan... As in those using hand to fan.... We had to do 320 of them but becoz we will out of satay sticks... so we stop...

Reach home about 6+... Slack around for awhile then after that went to Habourfront with meiying to have dinner.... We had dinner at g5...

I'm super tired and giddy now...Dizzy Can't even sit properly.... think I need to go rest.... Still got school tomorrow... and it would be a long day still got sectional... Off! Blackout

Message of the day:

Life is the process of finding love; every person will need to find four people in their life.

Something to share....

First person is you,

Second person is the one you love most,

Third person is the one who love you most,

And the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your
life with.



In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love
most, and learn how love feels.

Because you know how love feels, so you can find the
person who loves you most.

When you have experienced the feeling of loving others
and being loved, you will then know what it is you
need most.



Then you will find the person who is most suitable for
you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.



Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually
not the same person.



The one you love most doesn?t love you.

The one, who love you most, is never the one you love
most.

And the one you spend your life with, is never the one
you love most or the one who love you most.

He is just the person who happens to be at the right
place at the right time.



Which person are you in other people?s life?



No person will purposely have a change of heart.

At the point in time when he loves you, he really
loves you.

But when he doesn?t love you anymore, he really
doesn?t love you anymore.

When he loves you, he can?t pretend that he doesn?t.

Same goes, when he loves you no more, there?s no way
he can pretend he loves you.



When a person doesn?t love you and wants to leave you.


You must ask yourself if you still love him,

If you also don?t love him anymore, do not keep him
just to save your pride.

If you still love him, you should wish him happiness,
and hope that he will be with the one he loves most,
not stop him from it.

If you stop him from finding true happiness with the
one he loves, it shows you already don?t love him,

And if you don?t love him, what rights do you have to
blame him for a change of heart?



Love is not possessive,

If you like the moon, you can?t just take it down and
put it in your basin,

But the moonlight still shines upon you.

In other words, when you love a person, you can use
another method of possessing the person.

Let him become a permanent memory in you life.

If you really love a person, you must love him for
what he is.

Love him for his good points, and the bad,

You can?t wish for him to become like what you like
him to be just because you love him.



If he can?t change to become what you like him to be,
you don?t love him anymore.



When you really love a person, you cannot find a
reason why you love him,

You only know that no matter when and where, good mood
or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with
you.

Real love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without asking for promises or
listing criterias.

In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give
in at times, not always be on the receiving end.

Being away from each other is a type of test,

If the relationship isn?t strong, then you can only
admit defeat.

Real love will never become hate.



When two people are in love,

They love to ask each other to swear, to make
promises.

Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?

Because they don?t trust each other, they don?t trust
their lover.

These swear and promises are useless;

Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for
you will never change!

We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean
will never dry,

Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?



Be careful when making promises; don?t make promises
that you cannot keep.

Swear by things that can never happen, because it can
never happen, so no harm just saying it casually.

Remember, ?Swearing by things that can never happen
are the most touching!!?

In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what
you do is another;

The one saying, doesn?t believe; the one listening,
also doesn?t believe.



Which person have you found so far?

In the world so big, which person have you found?

And who has found you?




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